JUST jen IT: 2006

Sunday, August 20, 2006

The choices is yours..

well..recenly there is something keep poping up in my mind..i'm thinking of it's so good to be human..haha.. coz there are virtually everything can be control in our hand and thoughts.. the choices is always in your hand.. you can choose to do it.. or not to.. isn't it great?

whenever you meet some problem.. there is so much thing you can choose to do :
for eg.
1.you can sit there do nothing and complaining why you'll met such problem
2.you can take action to solve the problem
3.you can blame others to get you into this
4.you can ignore it and act as it didn't happen..
5.#$#$%1...etc

wow.. it's simply too many things you can choose to do..

remember the choice is always in your hand, dude??so..why don't we choose to do some actions that is constructive when we encounter some problems instead of doing other $#%#$^ thing that is simply doesn't help at all. well.. i'm sure you feel a sense of satisfaction when you solve that problem.

我最喜欢的两个静思语

每個人都有無限的可能，不要輕視自己，只要有心，沒有辦不到的事

赞美当警惕是非当教育
错误当经验嫌弃当反省
任何的批评都是宝贵的一堂课

Saturday, August 19, 2006

had a bad day? come here and have a look..

it's just some story(following the link below) to share with you and let you aware that your day is not thay bad yet...as you still can sit comfortably in whatever you're from to surf my blog..haha..

yeah.. you're right! You're very fortunated..

火魔吞噬四小生命　马六甲志工慰访发放

慈济快报

cheers and keep up with your life~

Friday, August 18, 2006

Action time! no time to regret now.

event + response = outcome! if others can do it, so can i!

so.. action! action! we want action! go go go!

Sunday, July 23, 2006

有感。

其实活到这样大了并没有很认真仔细的想很多东西。。所以遇到问题是总是花了很多时间在解决。。哈哈。。

最近发生了很多事情，更让我觉得其实对我来说要承认自己犯下的错误是多么的困难。我想对很多人来说也是非常的困难的，这也就是为什么华盛顿会这么伟大的原因啦（对他而言应该是很容易吧。。。。哈哈。。）一个在小学一年级就在道德教育课本中听过的故事，又有多少人能够了解其中意义呢？我想这不是这么的简单的。。至少对我自己而言，也是经历了很多次的教训后才了解的。。想不到这么简单的道理，随着年龄的长大和人事的复杂而变得如此困难。

对于那些连自己本身犯下什么错误都不知道的人，更加的不用说了。。不知道犯了什么错，最主要的一个原因就是在他的身边没有一个真正能够给与他忠诚意见的人，这个和能不能承认自己的错误可是有一定的关系存在。当然要承认错误必须知道其错误的根源，如果连自己错在那里都不知道那还谈什么承认呢？其实随着社会的变迁。对与错的规范也变得非常朦胧而很容易让心智不成熟、天真无邪的人们误入歧途。。犯了错后为了不让自己的内心自尊过意不去而间接会把自己对于对错重新定义。。这也是为什么会越来越多人不容易察觉自己犯下错误的其中原因之一。

所以简单的来说对错只是一线之差。。对于我自己我很庆幸在适当的时候总有些善之士能够给我很多意见及批评，在此我要感恩你们让我学习成长。对于我自己，我不期许自己不犯下任何的错误而是期许自己能够从错误中学习并成长从而不会再犯下同样的错误而一直在浩瀚的人生中兜圈子。